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| Negative Attitude |
Well! Things are very clear, objectivity is just transparent and now we are going to utilize research works and studies based on behavior sciences especially children behavior disorders statistics and measures to eradicate negative attitude and child behaviour problems.
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| Being Positive or Negative |
| This is the strange proportion of real life where one thing is positive in one point of view while same time it is negative in someone else’s, then how can we come across a natural and universal approach towards positivism and defining norms for negativism? We are actually concerned the society where we dwell and people among those we conduct a social interaction so this is obviously clear that a conduct to measure for its positivism or negativism is just due to the mind set of that society we live in and better to follow the way instead of being social rebel except some extreme level religious thoughts that guide humankind out of the majority people ignorance and enlighten mankind with divinity. |
| Can I change my child's behavior? |
Children adopt a behavior when it is rewarded and stop a behaviour which is ignored and not responded in their desired way so this is amply necessary to maintain consistency in your reaction to a specific behaviour for rewarding and punishing the same on different occasions and this simply confuses your child and derive him towards negative attitudes hostility.
When a behaviour of your child cause problem, you need to make understanding of following three points in your mind:
First of all, think a child behaviour problem is not that level of a problem but quite natural as it happens with all with same age groups.
Secondly, it is onto you that how you tackle with that behaviour of your child like you reward it, punish it or ignore it for some better time to explore with details.
You are about to make decision and here you think about bad attitudes and behaviours causing problems in your child’s education and routine life and he is spoiling himself with his own notorious thoughts brought by some reactionary causes, here you go and diagnose the behaviour and try to replace it with a new idea and positive activity like your child love to have lots of sweets and due to dentist’s prescriptions, sweetmeat is just prohibited and child feel dump and no excitement in his days and work outs, as parents, you need to create equilibrium in the situation and manage it with ice cream eating and having some fun out in the market and play land places. Sugar is an exciting and stimulant agent in children behavior and its down level can cause fatigue and temporary ADD in child behaviour so parents need to be vigilant always. |
| Is that misbehavior stoppable? |
| Yes it is! And how can we do? Several theories regarding misbehavior stoppage is applicable but the most affective is to ignore an un wanted behavior of your child for a period that normally reveal the results to children that their misbehave is no use to others and they get rid of this behaviour problem. It is actually time-out method to stop a behavior problem. |
| How suitable time-out method is to stop a behaviour problem |
Not all behavior problems but some are still subjected to get an instant stoppage by time-out method, if properly deployed. We need to decide time frame and time out limits in accordance to the behavior types and un necessary prolonging in a problematic behavior can cause another severe issue so it is important to have time frame and time out place decided first.
Time-out place should be like a part of living room but a corner and seating area or old books shelves nearby places where child often hesitate to go but not frightening places like under stairs and in washroom etc.
You can simply tell your child that his behavior is not acceptable and he has to face time-out punishment, you need to look cool and calm so child may not think like aggressive and revengeful thoughts. Now he is ready to face a time-out span and this should not be more than one minute with age group divisions, like three years old boy can face 2 and half of time out span duration so 3 minutes is suitable to put him in that time out corner. |
| Physical punishment |
| Punishments is the disciplinary action and it works well to stop an unwanted behavior but it doesn’t let your child learn about things and it stop learning process as well as bad behaviors. So the basic idea is to keep your child discipline maintained and discipline is to promote positive attitudes in children like early rising, cleaning and washing themselves, showing proper interest in studies and devoted to learning with extra curriculum activities for physical fitness. Physical punishments cause child abuse and make them aggressive individuals which is not that ideal condition for a society so humble and positively thinking people grab solutions better than aggressive ones. |
| Physical disability and child behavior problems |
| Physical disability is a considerable cause in most of problem making behaviors in child learning and growth related issues and it is bit difficult to handle with normal children environments of a school, playground and camping etc. Behaviors theorists suggest that such issues of disability are the problem of a young attitude phase where adolescent behavior take a sudden turn and get realization of their personal physique and want admirations from observers to have a pretty look so physical disability is a big hurdle in this way and a boy or girl with such issues would get isolation and then derived to abnormal attitudes. Here we need to make a high level of self esteem in such young children and to make their participations in normal life events which would make them proper acknowledgements that they can be active social members in walks of life. |
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